Saturday, January 26, 2013

What Marriage Means to Me So Far

On a one night the other day, I was thinking about what #marriage means or is about for me. So, yeah, as usual, I wanted to write those ideas down, or that night, tweeted them. It's compiled from my tweets the other day. Here they are:

  1. #marriage is having a partner to discuss your finance w/out feeling belittled & get stressful/satisfied together afterwards.
  2. #marriage is a freedom to fart & burp as loud as you can and then be disgusted together afterwards.
  3. #marriage is eating pete together, having a yucky & smelly good-n8 kiss, & wanting to puke in the morning because your bathroom smells awful.
  4. #marriage is trying to look happy & cheerful when welcoming your spouse from his/her work although you're exhausted as hell.
  5. #marriage is cursing each other when you 2 are mad w/out being afraid that he/she'll leave you cause you 2 know it's the devil who cursed.
  6. #marriage is hugging your spouse from the back & saying sorry when you finally realize that you're the one making the situation worse.
  7. #marriage is when you try your best to make up before going to bed because you two believe that you shouldn't sleep being grumpy & upset.
  8. #marriage is when you clean the house & wash the dishes & clothes while your spouse's feeding & lullabying your baby.
  9. #marriage is having a chit-chat for at least 15min at n8 before bed time although you're totally worn out by the work and stuff that day.
  10. #marriage is having someone to be your eternal partner to do stupid things forever, for the rest of your life.
  11. #marriage is giving your lover advices & criticisms about the smallest detail of his/her lack because it's only you who see it everyday.
  12. #marriage is having nicknames for each other, moves, songs, & codes that only both of you know.
  13. #marriage is a freedom to request any kinds of sex style w/out being afraid of being judged as kinky, weird, conservative, lame, or boring.
  14. #marriage is when your spouse can always turn you on even when you feel tired & don't feel like wanting any intercourse that time.
  15. #marriage is together raising your kid, discussing what's best, & not blaming each other of any flaws/mistakes/uniqueness your kid has.
  16. #marriage is being on your spouse's back when everyone blames or judges him/her because of what he/she was/said/looked/behaved.
  17. #marriage is doing any crimes together when both of you are tired of the routines, work, and stuff and keeping it as a secret from the other
  18. #marriage is being a fashion-police together when you two are in crowd & you're free to use any dictions to describe others' looks.
  19. #marriage is when a snack & DVD time feels so luxurious after getting the chores finished.
  20. #marriage is doing something you don't really like although reluctantly 'cause you know it can entertain your spouse.
  21. #marriage is having a conversation & jokes & scrubbing each other's back when you two are taking a bath together.
  22. #marriage is giving kisses when you leave the house, go home, go to bed, & wake up & you feel sth's missing when you forget that.
  23. #marriage is being fatter together. Huhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhuhu!!!
  24. #marriage is taking notes of the money you spent for that day at night before you two go to bed.
  25. #marriage is supporting your spouse & making him/her assured that he/she can be a much greater & better person.

This is the guy I'm falling for.

We're a great partner doing silly things

The Suryaputra's

Who can stay mad at this moron face?!
Another stupidity

Thursday, January 3, 2013

Hidup Belakangan Ini

Sekarang hidup hanya seputar bangun pagi untuk membuat MPASI, membangunkan suami untuk bersih-bersih (biasanya dia baru beneran bangun 15 menit kemudian dan itu sudah buang-buang waktu namanya), menyuapi Ubii, menjemur Ubii, memandikan Ubii, memiumkan obat ke Ubii, menyuapi Ubii buah, menidurkan Ubii sambil nenen, dan bersih-bersih rumah selagi Ubii tidur. Setelah itu, istirahat sebentar rebah-rebahan. Syukur-syukur kalau Ubii belum bangun, saya jadi bisa ikutan tidur.

Sore-sorean, menyuapi Ubii buah dan nasi tim lagi. Mandi. Kerja jam 5 sampai 9. Selesai. Beli makan malam buat diri sendiri dan suami. Pulang. Makan malam. Bincang-bincang sebentar. Beres-beres yang belum beres. 

Kira-kira seminggu terakhir ini, lalu saya bertanya dalam hati, "Kapan aku bisa menyenangkan dan memanjakan diri sendiri?"


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